The sandwich generation is a term to delegate people who are raising their children while simultaneously taking care of their aging parents. The sandwich generation has the double duty of multigenerational care, which can be both rewarding and exceptionally stressful. In order to provide the best quality care, these special kinds of caregivers must know how to balance a seemingly endless list of responsibilities while also taking care of their own needs. Learn how to balance your responsibilities without losing your own health below:
Prioritize
When it comes to multitasking responsibilities and duties, it’s integral to prioritize. Set short-term and long-term goals and get yourself organized. Think about how you can minimize your workload while still getting the most out of your day. Be flexible and adaptable to changing situations, and know when to delegate responsibilities. Prevent stress by sharing responsibilities with your siblings, spouse, and children. Chances are that your older children can participate in chores and household duties that will benefit the whole family.
Find Support
Find a network of support to help you through stressful times. Your partner can be a pillar of support, but seek comfort and encouragement from family members and friends as well. Consider seeking out support groups made of people who understand what you are going through in challenging and stressful times.Learn to Handle Stress
Between the chores, responsibilities, engagements, and duties, the stress can amount quickly. It is crucial to learn how to decompress. The superhuman mentality of “I can do it all!” can be damaging. Learn when to pause and when to say “no.” It can be hard for caretakers to ask for help because they can see it as a failure to their family, but be forgiving on yourself and understand that one person cannot be expected to handle it all. It takes a village, after all.
Take Care of Yourself
It’s true what they say: If you don’t take care of yourself, you won’t be able to take care of loved ones. Set aside time to take care of yourself. Follow a healthy diet, get proper sleep, and make time for adequate exercise; your physical health needs care, too! Remember to engage with friends and prioritize your passions; your emotional and mental health matter as well.The sandwich generation might seem like a cute nickname, but the novelty wears off rather quickly. Take time for yourself, ask for help, and prioritize your family’s needs (as well as your own) and you’ll do just fine.
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